Relating, Me Before We

Relating, Me Before We For individuals and couples who want to stay whole while loving deeply. Because self is the ground, and relationship is the garden. Relating is an art and a skill, not something we are born knowing, but something we learn through nervous system, honesty, rupture, repair, shadow, eros and deep self awareness. This eight week immersion is designed for individuals and couples who want to love with integrity, not through survival patterns, not through self abandonment, not through performance, but through the body, through truth, through presence, through ritual, and through structure. Across eight weeks we explore: • who you are beneath roles and conditioning • the values that shape your choices • how you give and receive love • vulnerability and emotional expression • rupture and repair, how to come back to connection • shadow and eros, the parts we hide and hunger for • relational agreements built from clarity, not fear • weaving self and other without losing either This is relational work that begins in the body. Because connection without self means collapse, and connection without other is isolation. Here, we practise the space in between, where I can remain intact, while we can thrive. This is space to unravel, soften, witness, be witnessed, speak truth, learn repair, integrate jealousy, own desire, and come into connection with yourself in a way that makes deep intimacy possible, without disappearing inside it. Whether you are entering new relationship, deepening an existing one, navigating non monogamy or wanting to relate better with yourself, this container is a grounding, a mirror, a guide, a place to return to, a place to grow through. You will leave with: • a written personal constitution • relational agreements that support clarity and safety • nervous system literacy • deeper capacity for vulnerability and truth • understanding of shadow, eros and repair • the ability to stay you while loving another This is relational growth done slowly, in the body, together. Program Structure • 8 weeks • 60 minute calls on Zoom • Weekly or Fortnightly • Available for individuals, couples and polycules Cost For individual - $1,920. Couples and polycules - $3,200.