Relating, Me Before We
An eight week program - for individuals and couples who want to stay whole while loving deeply.
Service Description
Relating, Me Before We. For individuals and couples who want to stay whole while loving deeply. Relating is an art and a skill. Not something we are born knowing, but something we learn through the nervous system, through honesty and rupture and repair, through shadow and eros and the slow work of becoming more truthful with ourselves. Self is the ground. Relationship is the garden. This eight-session immersion is for people who want to love with integrity. Not from survival patterns, self-abandonment, or performance, but from the body, from truth, from presence, and from something more consciously built. We move through the territory where love most often wobbles: who you are beneath roles and conditioning; how you give and receive love; emotional expression and vulnerability; rupture, repair, and the art of coming back; shadow and eros; and relational agreements made from clarity rather than fear. Connection without self leads to collapse. Connection without other leads to isolation. This program lives in the space between, where I can remain intact while we can thrive. This work grew from years in the therapy room. The patterns became unmistakable. The places people lose themselves. The moments the nervous system takes over and the conversation disappears. The same rupture returning in a different relationship, wearing a different face. Again and again I found myself guiding clients through the same territory: staying with themselves in conflict; naming what they actually need; understanding how attachment shapes everything; repairing after harm; building agreements that support connection rather than just keeping the peace. Relating, Me Before We was created from that work. A structured journey through the places relationships most need tending, designed to help you stay centred, honest and connected in love. You will leave with a written personal constitution, relational agreements for clarity and safety, deeper nervous system awareness, greater capacity for honesty and vulnerability, understanding of shadow patterns, tools for rupture and repair, and the ability to stay connected to yourself while loving another. 8 sessions, 60 minutes via Zoom · Weekly, fortnightly or monthly Individuals, couples and polycules Individuals: $1,920 · Couples & polycules: $3,200 If you feel the call, book in a 15 minute consultation call for us to discuss further.
Cancellation Policy
Booking & Cancellations All new clients begin with a free 15-minute consult call to see if we’re a good fit and clarify which offering suits your needs. Sessions are by appointment only and can be booked once intake and consent forms are completed. Payment is due at the time of booking unless otherwise agreed. This confirms your session time and supports a clear, grounded start to our work together. If you need to reschedule or cancel, please give at least 24 hours’ notice. Late cancellations or missed sessions may be charged in full unless there is an emergency. Punctuality Please arrive on time. Sessions cannot be extended for late arrivals, as this ensures respect for both our time and energy. Mutual Respect This work is grounded in clear agreements, care, and respect for one another. I will honour our agreed time and commitments, and I ask the same in return. Please see Terms and Conditions for more info.